The Decision Point

You're in missionary, thrusting away, she's moaning, and it seems like the clock is ticking down until her orgasm.

Then it all stops.

You lose it too soon, the erection goes away, the embarrassment commences.

If you were to slow down time, rewind the entire interaction, and play it frame by frame, you would find it.

The decision point.

In every sexual mishap it exists. A point where you had a choice between turning left or going right.

The red pill or the blue pill.

That decision needs to be made quickly. Sometimes you may only have a few seconds to make it.

Wrong choice, night over. Right choice, feel like a stud.

These are the little moments that make the difference. When you start to notice these decision points, and when you already have a pre-conceived game plan about what options you're going to take, things start to get easier.

Start looking at your sexual interaction like a hockey game.

Yes, there is "sex." But what is sex really? A series of small plays that cumulatively make up the game.

Wrong play, wrong moment. You lose.

So start recognizing those moments when the momentum shifts, and there is a clear decision about what to do that would benefit your bedroom performance.

• It might be the change of position.
• The shift in angle.
• A transition from horizontal to upright within a position.
• That 10 second pause.
• Or that strategic distraction.

Master those decision points, and you'll start to master control.

Chat soon,
Mitch