Mitch Hartwell
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    Position Is Priority

    August 11, 2026·1 min read

    Clenched jaw, aching, cramping… feeling defeated.

    Sound familiar?

    When I wrote the 10 Commandments of the Clit, I based it on the principles that actually matter and move the needle in your ability to satisfy your woman.

    And commandment #1 was simple, elegant, and powerful.

    Position is priority.

    Most of the time, the reason you can't go down on your woman for an extended period of time isn't a lack of tongue strength or stamina (You're not bench pressing her vagina with your tongue.)

    The main culprit is your starting position.

    The position you choose sets up the whole event, because if your head, neck, and back are not aligned properly allowing your jaw to remain relaxed and straight-on to the vagina, then you are going to burn out quickly and be unable to go the distance.

    Also, your initial starting position will dictate which of the core pussy eating methods you'll implement, whether it's the Precision T, Comfort T, Clitoral Suction, or Ascension Stroke.

    Because in addition to jaw comfort, we need to be comfortable with how we are situated vis-à-vis the vagina, so that there's never a need to stop or adjust our body (which could prevent HER orgasm).

    Remember, pussy eating done in porno movies is all about showing the action to the camera, it's not about functionally getting women off.

    So make sure that you are:

    • Comfortable
    • Aligned
    • Positioned for technique

    You can't satisfy if you can't last, whether it's your tongue or your penis, the result is the same.

    Disappointment.

    Chat soon,
    Mitch

    TECHNIQUE STARTS WITH POSITION.

    Satisfying her isn't just about knowing what to do with your tongue. Position, stamina, feedback, and technique all work together. The Everhard Academy gives you the systems to train the whole skill.

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